“My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half. I fell in love with her a long time before that, but now I just don’t feel the same way. It’s like I want to break up with her but than at the same time I don’t know what to do without her. She is the love of my life but I can’t stand the way she is always blaming me for things that have nothing to do with me. I don’t know what to do. Please help.” (Edited)
Deciding you can’t live with her or without her, hardly gives her a lot of room to move. She’s a player in this too. It’s time for you to have a good head-to-heart talk with yourself (find out what you really want) and follow that with a good heart-to-heart talk with her (to find out what you both want). Greater clarity will probably do each of you a lot of good. At some point in your life you might discover that loving a person must progress beyond intense feelings of love.